40 Years Lost
Mark Gustafson, 74
A former bed-and-breakfast owner from Jacksonville, Florida, Mark masked his true self until he came face-to-face with his sexuality at age 40. Married (for a second time) with a daughter at the time, he had a one-night stand with a man he met at a gay bar. His confession to his wife the next day turned his once traditional lifestyle upside down. Although he has never had an intimate gay relationship since, he has never lost hope. Mark’s outgoing personality has kept him moving forward, and he remains dedicated to living his senior years as his genuine, unapologetic self. Mark now devotes time to advocating for the LGBTQ+ community and helping those who are experiencing hardships similar to those he went through.